Generally, when you want to extend dmn-js, you need to provide your additional modules on the editor creation, e.g.
const modeler = new DmnModeler({
decisionTable: {
additionalModules: [
/* your module here */
]
}
});
Then, to extend UI, your modules will have to provide Inferno 5 components (preferably use the same Inferno version as in dmn-js) via the components
API. Example of that is here: https://github.com/bpmn-io/dmn-js/blob/develop/packages/dmn-js-decision-table/src/features/decision-table-head/editor/InputEditingProvider.js#L13
The first argument is always the type of the component. Types which you can provide for the decision table head are available here: https://github.com/bpmn-io/dmn-js/blob/develop/packages/dmn-js-decision-table/src/features/decision-table-head/components/DecisionTableHead.js#L61
In your use case, you will probably have to replace the context menu, which is provided in the InputEditingProvider.
Good luck!